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G is my best friend ever.

That was a picture of blue eyes on G's profile of skype, and he came to talk to me. I barely remember our first conversation, but he's never been gone from my life since then. Later, I started to know him a little bit and also his present girlfriend. His girlfriend is a very beautiful girl and it's not hard to tell that she loves G very much. How? HA...G is a super lazy person who doesn't clean or cook in their apartment. He is so fucking lucky to have this girlfriend to do everything for him, and no matter how late his girlfriend works, he always waits till his girlfriend come home to cook, instead of making his own food or even making some for his girlfriend. He just never helped!!

J is a very special friend, becuase I know him from China, not in Taiwan, not in USA, not in Australia. He is an Australian who falls in love with Chinese culture. He started to study Chinese since college, and be very interested in China since that time, so he took off by himself to find a job in China four, five years ago.

In the city like ShaoXing, it is not a hard thing to know that you meet J in the street. Why? I tell you why now! 1) ShaoXing is a god damn small city, you can easily meet someone you know in the street, no matter where you go; 2) J is super tall, 190 something cm, and local people in ShaoXing are so freaking short, so if you see some foreigner 190 something tall and white, there is 99% that this person is J; 3) J knows over 300 people in ShaoXing. If you include all of his students, it should be over 300 people. So if you cannot be sure if it's him or not, you will hear some other people call his name.

This girl is the most special friend I have ever had, because she has this special personality that non of them would happen among the friends I have.

Without spending too much time on talking with her lover on the phone, she is a very talkative, open-minded, straightforward, thoughtful, and funny friend. It is actually not a very easy thing to understand what she said in the first time I met her because she has this strong Thai accent. I remember the first time we had our first dinner together outside of the campus in a Japanese restaurant, it was kinda frustrated for me that I didn't quite follow what everyone was saying, coz we have a girl from Georgia, a guy from Malaysia, and another two from Thailand (so one of these two is the friend I am talking about). They got used to speak English already because the Georgia girl speaks English in her country sometimes, this Malaysian guy stayed in Australia for couple years, and these two Thai studied in USA over 4 years that time. As for me, that was my very first time to really use my poor English, so I was kinda pissed that I didn't quite understand them well, so I did ask them for teaching me English. But in the end, I found out that it's not really my problem because we all have different accents which are caused by our monther language, it's just needed to take some more time to get used to the tune!

Around this time, it reminds me about this friend I have when I am back in USA. He is from Indonesia and I met him in the first class I attened in USA. He was the only Asian (except me and my two other classmates) in the class. I thought that he is ABC or borned in USA, and I like his bright/shinny eyes (although it's not a good description for a big guy like him). Too bad that we (me and my two other classmates) got kicked out after one period of class because that stupid professor thought that we are not qualified to attend his class (truth is that we just don't understand American culture that much; not the course he teaches). Thus, I thought that I will never get to know this Asian and I didn't even know his name yet.

This girl I met when I was in USA. She is a very smart, strong girl, and always know what she wants. However, I ran away from being her friend after three weeks, because somehow, I found myself being ruled by her in many ways which means I don't really have right to choose what I want, but totally follow her orders. But to be with her, you will not be harm for sure tho because she is a very good friend who knows how to protect her friends, and stand up for you at a very righ time. So, it doesn't surprise me at all to see her work for things about development, human rights, politics, and conflicts.  And also, this girl is from Georgia (a country, not the state in USA), so she has some strong words about the conflicts happened recently between Georgia and Russia. But you know, if you know her well, she is just being justic!

During the time we were studying in USA, she got this boyfriend serving in Georgia's military. They talked on phone from time to time and she always told me that things didn't go well between them. After left the school in one year, she left to study master in Holland. Of course, she again said she wanted to dump her boyfriend because of certain reasons. And again, I told her that maybe thing can work somehow, because it's been so long!