My cousin will be engaged next week. She is actually struggling about making this marriage to happen for a while. I don't really know what's her concerns, but I know there are concerns, because after all, marriage for a woman is a huge thing, she gives her life to a man, and another family. Her life will be totally changed from that moment.
Thus, how do you know if you are ready for all of this? I cannot imagine how a woman can be so ready to marry a guy when it comes to reality.